Sunday, December 13, 2015

Just let him go

You left him. You decided to end your marriage. You started another relationship. You moved in with someone else. You told him to find someone else. Then he did. And you lost your shit.

You can't have it both ways. You can't not want him and not want him to be with anyone else. You can't cut the tie that binds and expect him to hold up his end long after you abandoned yours and tied onto someone else. It's not fair; to him, to your new partner, to me, the one he found. We all now suffer because like a two year old who hoards their toys, you don't want anyone else to have him: The one you long ago discarded.

Just let him go.

Please.

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